Who Dat!

The Saints are going to the super bowl and the Griffin's are pumped!

I should say the Griffin's minus Hank are excited. Hank chooses to root against any team Randy and I like. Consequently, he is now a Colts fan!

Obviously the most pumped is Randy who was a Saints fan WAY before Hurricane Katrina! It didn't make the pain of surgery go away, but definitely helped.

I couldn't resist putting this picture up! This is prior to surgery on Friday. The doc said everything went really well and he expects Randy to make a full recovery. I have to thank everyone for their concern and support for Randy. It really means a lot to Randy and I. We have the best family and friends in the world and we love you all so much. I'm thinking Super Bowl party at our house...everyone is invited! Go SAINTS!

What do Randy and Brad Pitt have in common?

Oh City League basketball, why must you come into our lives every year? Each game that passes I'm grateful Randy escaped uninjured....until Monday night. It was a typical night of city league madness, lots of hard fouls, technicals, people getting thrown out, bad refs etc. Randy kept his cool through it all and the game ended up going into overtime. As Randy took the ball down the court, he took one step forward and dropped to the ground holding his ankle. No one was around him so I was confused as to what happened but he was obviously in agony. He hopped to the bench and luckily his dad was there to catch him as he passed out (I'm guessing from the intense pain he was in). He knew right away his achilles tendon was snapped. He heard a popping sound and said it felt like someone shot him in the back of the leg. We rushed him to the hospital and the doctor confirmed what Randy already knew. After an appointment with the orthopedic surgeon today and an MRI, it is clear he completely severed his achilles tendon.

Surgery will be Friday morning and the doctor is very optomistic he will be able to resume athletic activity soon. In fact, he said he would be able to make it stronger than before. He's looking at about 10 weeks of different casts and walking boots before he can walk normally. I think it's safe to say Randy is retiring his city league jersey for good now. The kids aren't sure what to do when dad is unable to wrestle and do all the things he normally does with them. Hank has been extremely helpful, where Max is taking out his frustrations in the form of tantrums and other mischievious behavior. They still want to be around him constantly as you can see.

If you're still unclear what Brad Pitt and Randy have in common watch the movie Troy...you'll thank me later!

My Saddest Day...for real this time

I thought the day my grandpa died was my saddest day. Then after the viewing and funeral were over yesterday, I realized my saddest day came today. Reality is setting in and it is rough, no lie. The craziness of the past few days has calmed down. No more distraction, no more denial. I have this aching in my heart and it won't ease up. I know time heals all wounds but right now I can only focus on getting through today. Life will never be the same without gramps, but I realize it has to be this way. I'm really trying to take his advise and focus on the positive and wonderful things in my life and stay present for them. I can just hear my grandpa telling me to stop crying about him and enjoy my amazing boys and make the most out of everyday with them. After the funeral yesterday, I am truly inspired by his life and committed to making a difference in the world around me. I just want to thank my friends and family for their amazing support and love through this difficult time. The extra hugs, phone calls, e-mail, flowers and food mean more to me than words can express. I am deeply touched by your concern for me and my family. I couldn't get through this without all of you. I love you so much!

What would I do without these boys and their daddy? They give my life purpose and I am so grateful for them.

My Saddest Day

My dear grandpa passed away today and I am devastated. Not that his death was a surprise, as he has been battling heart trouble for quite some time, but I don't think you are ever truly ready for that day. I can't believe he's actually gone. Last Sunday was such a gift. I caught my grandpa on a day where his mental clarity was very high. We were able to talk, laugh and cry for almost 2 hours. He offered his trusted advise, we reminisced, and we were able to tell each other how much the other meant to us. It was such a gift. Knowing that was the last time I spoke to him makes it all the more special. I will miss his step clap dance routine (see above picture). I will miss his soft, strong hands and his always complimentary and positive attitude. Grandpa, I will never forget the things you've told me and the incredible times we have shared. I am so honored and proud to be called your granddaughter. It is something I will take pride in the rest of my life. There won't be a day that goes by where something doesn't remind me of you. I will strive to live everyday to it's fullest potential in your honor, grandpa. I love you and will miss you dearly.

Happy Birthday Randy and Happy New Year!

Randy's birthday celebration turned into a week long event! It began on his birthday eve with a little family style rock band session. My kids are destined to be rock stars, I just know it!

I'm pretty sure I was singing "Beat It" in the next photo...Hank was a little shy to belt out the tunes. Max wouldn't let go of his guitar. My favorite was Max singing "So What" by Pink.

Randy woke up on his birthday and decided he wanted to take the kids to Kangaroo Zoo. What an awesome dad! The kids had a blast, Max was fearless and Hank got such a kick out of watching his little brother.

Max couldn't walk to each slide, he either galloped, hopped, or ran. Last time we went there, I had to help him up every slide...not this time. They were little maniacs. It is so nice to have a place where they can just run wild and get some energy out. My mom and dad even dropped by to give Randy his birthday present.

After a nap we dropped the kids off at Kate's house and Randy and I headed up to Salt Lake. Even though Lynn's concert was canceled, we decided to still go on with our original plan of spending the night in the big city. I'm really glad we did. My kids had a blast with Kate, Dan, Lucy and Isabel. Thanks guys, can't wait to repay the favor!

After getting settled in our hotel, we walked across the street to Christopher's for dinner. We had reservations so we didn't wait to be seated and the atmosphere was very quiet and romantic. Randy and I have become lovers of ahi so we both ordered that for dinner. However, I opted for the "Angry Ahi" while Randy chose a more mild version. Let's just say, this ahi wasn't angry, it was PISSED! Seriously, the hottest dish ever! The chef even came out to see if I as o.k. after my first bite. I love spice, but this was full on fire coming out of my ears! Our server kept my water glass full all night.

What beautiful presentation! I was disappointed that the dessert we wanted, a "Chocolate Bomb" was sold out! Randy didn't even get dessert on his birthday...LAME-O. There was an outdoor concert going on next to the restaurant but it was freezing and didn't look that fun so we wandered around the block and found a place to dance and ring in the new year. Anytime I can watch Randy dance is awesome. He has moves you've never seen, so do I for that matter! I love that I can completely be myself around Randy and he loves me no matter what. We always have such a great time together.

This as the view from our hotel room on the 17th floor.

It took me most of the next day to recover from our late night. Just long enough to plan the next birthday party with our loved ones. We kept it really low key, but had a great turn out.

Mother and son

Sarah, Kate, and Jack

Mama and Isabel

Randy and Rick

Lovin' the BYU sweatshirt, courtesy of Jeri and Scott...also a package of hanky's since "every dad needs one", right Scott?

Max helped his dad blow out the candles, and yes I am rocking a pony!

Max and Hank-perfect representation of their personalities, might I add!

Jenni doesn't think she looks anything like Randy, I beg to differ. Look at that picture? Hey Jenni, why are you so mad? Most people left early but we had some stragglers, (you know who you are), that stayed until almost 2 in the morning! We are just that fun, what can I say. Randy, Happy Birthday my love. I don't know many people who can get away with so much celebration for a birthday, but you deserve every bit of it. I'm so excited to see what joy this year will bring. We've had such a fun holiday season, yet I'm looking forward to regaining some sort of routine to my life. My kids need to get back on track with early bed times, school, karate, and eating things other than chocolate! Happy New Year to all! I have yet to write my resolutions but I have a few in mind. Maybe I'll post them later, so I actually follow through with them!

Christmas Love

My previous attempt at this Christmas post failed miserably and after 3 hours of hard blogging work, I had to delete it and start over!!! Not to mention my w key isn't working so that is causing serious frustration. Anyway...Christmas this year was full of celebration and happiness. I was filled with an overwhelming sense of gratitude and love this holiday season. I've said it before and I'm sure I'll say it again, I have the most incredible family in the world. I took about a thousand pictures so sit back, relax, and enjoy the love. We started off with a Christmas dinner at La Dolce Vita with the Tucker/Eliason clan on the 23rd.

This sweater is perfection as well as this face!

Riley and Randy were feeling very festive.


Grandma J, Sarah, and Jack...Grandpa Karl was very much missed. My Grandpa Sherm went over to spend some time with him while the rest of the family was at the party.

Jeff and my adorable mama

Kate, Phil, Jil, and Becky...Dan and Isabel were also missed, Isabel had the stomach flu.

Hank, Lucy, and Max had a blast with the art projects provided by Barbara. Max was so proud of his artistic ability that he had to show everyone including the waiter his creations.


Max didn't hesitate one bit to jump on Santa's lap, in fact he was so comfortable he wouldn't get off! He told Santa he wanted drums and candy canes for Christmas.

Hank wasn't too excited to sit on Santa's lap so Max pulled him up there. When Santa asked him what he had been doing good this year he nervously replied "sharing and helping clean up". Hank had planned on showing the family his karate skills, hence the outfit change, but felt too shy to perform. Sarah had the genius idea to ask Hank if he would break a board for Santa and he jumped at the chance. He used such speed and force that the board was smashed before I could get a picture. Santa was so impressed, it was awesome.

Before Santa left, he asked Hank to pick his favorite Christmas song. He chose "Up on the Housetop" and did the actions he learned in preschool, in a shy nervous way only Hank can! He is such a little nervous nelly, just like I was as a kid.

My love for Jack is bordering obsession at this point. Those cheeks are so irresistible, he makes me really excited to have another baby. Note to Sarah and Amanda...it's not happening until after my birthday so RELAX!

Grandma J, Phil, Larry, Shellie, and mama

Next on the agenda was our annual Christmas Eve bash at Jeri and Scott's house. We had a wonderful dinner and then Jenni had the boys line up and fold their arms before the present opening started.

These two were spoiled rotten by their grandma and cousins however, Max seemed to be most excited about his chap stick from Kunz.

Jenni, Lynn, Rick, and I posing as two happy couples. Randy was the photographer. Jeri gave Randy and I a snuggie which will really come in handy when I'm playing rock band in our freezing basement.

Rusty and Collette sent the boys matching Tom Brady jersey's which they love! We really missed you guys this Christmas.

Jeri and Dyson posing with Mr. Cross-eye himself!

Grandma getting in on some cross-eyed action.

Grandma Dot joined us for the party and she acted very happy to be there. It was great to have her with us.

Oh Maxi...why are you so damn cute? Speaking of cute, I wish I could freeze Hank at 4 years old. He was so excited about Christmas this year. Jeri found a web site tracking Santa on Christmas Eve and Hank was so worried about getting home and in bed before Santa came. He even had a surprise dropped off by one of Santa's elves the night before with a note that said Santa loved watching him break a board. He was amazed!

We got the kids to bed in record time and Santa came! This is Max's pile of presents including drums, a tent, a tractor, and clothes.

Hank's loot included an air hockey table, a batman cave, Eli Manning jersey, nerf guns, games, a sled and a magic kit.

They began playing immediately!

Max can't get enough of his drums, and after playing with them for a minute I can see why!
Randy of course spoiled me with some new boots, and some really wonderful knives! Top Chef here I come!

Next we headed up to my parents house for MORE presents and a delicious breakfast. Max and Gramps could hardly contain their excitement.

The boys love each other and their new hunting coats.

Grandpa Sherm and Grandma Yvonna came over for breakfast. I love this tender moment between Jack and my grandpa.

Max enjoyed a giant sugar cookie for breakfast.

Are we wearing the same scarf? How embarrassing.

The kids enjoyed an intense game of operation--yes he is cross-eyed again.

Dove watched very attentively as the adults played a game called white lies. I am officially the worst liar ever. It's a great trait to have in life but not if you want to win this game.

What an adorable picture... but Hank seriously, enough! People are going to start thinking his eyes are like that all the time.

Me and my sistas posing for posterity.

My mom didn't think we were nearly as funny as I did! She was like "seriously girls, lets take a good picture". I had the giggles...what do you do?

Our last destination was to my Grandpa Karl's house. My mom has Jack and Riley has Monet. Grandma Joanne gave me and my cousins an assignment to complete our photo albums she gave us last year by Christmas day this year. You'd think a year would be sufficient time to finish such a project but Riley and Wyatt somehow managed to "forget" their books. We had fun looking at everyone's pictures and reminiscing.


My grandpa got out of bed and enjoyed looking at some pictures with us. He doesn't talk much these days but he did ask me to get him a pickle. A strange request, however I was honored to do something for him. What a blessing to have him here for at least one more Christmas.

The party got out of hand in a hurry as soon as Jack's pants came off and he started eating Hank's face.

After an exhausting day, my kids were more than ready to put on their Christmas jammies and play with their new stuff. What a wonderful holiday we had.

I love Christmas and all the festivities that come with it, but when it's over I have this huge sense of relief. I take my tree down the day after Christmas and put away our gifts as fast as I can. I'm really looking forward to Randy's birthday. We will be spending New Year's Eve up in Salt Lake and it will be nice to take a break from my usual hostess duties that night.